Reader Question:
A day or two ago we continued a romantic date with an individual who is 2 yrs more youthful than myself from an online dating website. The time lasted four hours so we had a very good time. After the big date, he suggested that next week-end however wish to go out as well as offered to stroll me home. But i’m going crazy thinking he isn’t into me because he doesn’t content me personally on Facebook or regarding the dating site as much now.
Is actually the guy simply getting bashful and keeping it cool, or ought I ignore him completely?
-Corrine (British Columbia)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:
The response is most likely certainly to both of the questions you have. Its just already been a few days, Corrine. I’d be more focused on a cling-on which calls immediately after the day.
You will need to contain yourself and determine what unfolds before you make forecasts regarding future. And indeed, one strategy to containing yourself is to just forget about him altogether and focus the attention elsewhere.
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